The Legal Words You Must Say in Your Ceremony

When it comes to your wedding ceremony, you have a lot of freedom. You can choose your music, write your own vows, involve your pets, invite the kids, and make it as fun or as formal as you like. But, there are a few legal words that must be said in every ceremony to make your marriage official.

The Marriage Act 1961 sets out these words, and while they don’t take long, they’re absolutely essential. Think of them as the “non-negotiables” that make your marriage legally binding.

Many couples choose to follow the legal vow with personal promises they’ve written themselves.

The Monitum (What I Say)

Before you exchange vows, I’ll say a short legal statement called the Monitum. It’s the part where I explain that marriage in Australia is between two people, entered into voluntarily and with a clear understanding of what it means. It might sound a little formal, but it’s an important reminder of the significance of what you’re about to do.

The Legal Vows (What You Say)

Then it’s over to you! Each of you must say this line in front of your witnesses:

“I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, [your full name], take you, [your partner’s full name], to be my lawful wedded [husband/wife/spouse].”

That’s it. Short and simple, but powerful. Once you’ve said those words, you’re legally married.

Can We Add More?

Absolutely! Many couples choose to follow the legal vow with personal promises they’ve written themselves. These can be as heartfelt, funny, or light-hearted as you want, it’s your moment. I’ll guide you through both parts, so you’re never left wondering what to say or how it all flows together.

Why This Matters

It’s easy to get caught up in the fun parts of wedding planning, but these few lines are what make your marriage official in the eyes of the law. Without them, no matter how gorgeous the ceremony, the marriage isn’t legally valid.

That’s why having a celebrant who understands the legal side (and keeps it stress-free) is so important. You get to relax, enjoy the moment and know everything is taken care of.

Ready to Make It Official?

When we work together, I’ll guide you through the legal words step by step, make sure they flow naturally in your ceremony and give you the freedom to add all the personal touches that make it truly yours.

I will make your wedding day legal, personal and fun!